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~Beware, Unchecked Emotions On the Loose~ October 24, 2013

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Yesterday, a small group of women from my church started the bible study, “Unglued” by Lysa TerKeurst.  For those of you who either know me really well or even just through this blog, you are aware of my ability to sometimes spew my emotions onto my family.  My hopes are that through this study, I will learn to stop letting my feelings get the best of me in life’s tricky situations and use God’s word to combat my raw emotions before I allow them to sabotage my most valuable relationships.

Before we’d even left the church yesterday, I knew there was something from the guide that I would be sharing with you all today!  Lysa gave us a list of “animals,” asking which described us best when faced with an unglued kind of situation:

Wounded bear:  I am hurt & unpredictable, so watch out!

Agitated skunk:  I may or may not create a stink, but the threat is always there.

Deceptive peacock:  Who me?  I’m not upset.  Look at all my pretty feathers!

Crouching tiger:  I many not attack now, but I will strike back when you least expect it.

Screech owl:  Prepare for a tirade!

Barricading beaver:  No time to say what I’m really feeling.  I’m too busy building a wall between us.

Or maybe you are another animal altogether.

Here is what I found interesting about this word picture, I am a different animal depending on who I am dealing with.

Outside of my home, especially in church, you are going to get the deceptive peacock.  I will put on a happy face and present a calm, collected exterior while on the inside my emotions are just below the surface begging to come out.  I do the same with my husband.  You know how it goes, “Honey, are you ok, what’s wrong?”  “Nothing.  I’m fine.”  Nobody’s buying all that fakeness so stop trying to sell it!

Now, with my poor kiddos, beware of the screech owl!  Granted I don’t yell at my kids all the time, but definitely more than I should.  Nine times out of ten, the tirade begins after I’ve attempted to make my point calmly a time or five to no avail.  I let my anger get the best of me and just like a rubber-band that’s pulled taut, I snap.  Only to instantly feel ashamed and guilty that I could be so vicious with the most wonderful gifts I’ve ever been given.

There has to be a better way to deal with these out-of-control, reckless emotions…and that is my goal during these next 6 weeks.

I am curious as to which animal you all relate to best, that is if you are willing to share.  Either way, I invite you to examine yourself and be totally honest with how you are handling your relationships.  Are you being controlled by your emotions like I can sometimes be?  If so, whether you are doing this study along with us or not, let’s allow God to show us a better way to deal with the circumstances that trigger our unglued reactions.

“Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry.  Human anger does not produce the righteousness God desires.”

(James 1:19-20 NLT)

 

12 Responses to “~Beware, Unchecked Emotions On the Loose~”

  1. Steve Rebus Says:

    Fantastic study! I’d say i struggle between a Barricading beaver & Crouching tiger. Really looking forwards to following this as i think it will be challenging! 😀

  2. bwcarey Says:

    if it ain’t love it ain’t God, pure and simple, but your mind can be dangerous, it can be interfered with so easily, so don’t panic, or over act, listen, wisdom will find you

    • Very good advice…your mind can deceive you if you let it. I find myself overreacting the most when I’ve sat and “talked to myself” all day about how right I am and how wrong everyone else is..that’s not God, though.

      • bwcarey Says:

        stop measuring, it’s a disease of the mind, we are reminded of our faults daily, that little thing in your head is not what it is supposed to be, it should be full of the positive, how easy it is to down someone, it’s too easy if we follow words, it’s action as they say in the movies!

  3. Sigh…I’m definitely the wise (NOT) old owl 😦

  4. Jay Tickle Says:

    I’d say I fall between the peacock and the beaver. I wonder if there’s an animal that would describe how we ought to respond in unglued situations.

  5. Oh, this study is SO good. I’m mostly the barricading beaver, but God has helped me to become more vulnerable with His help. Glad to come over and meet another sister in Christ!


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